How To Get An Ex Back
If you’re going through a break up you may
well find yourself wondering how to go get an ex back.
Unfortunately almost every person will experience the heartbreak of a relationship breaking up
at some point. It seems to be part of life and the give and take of relationships.
Sometimes it is better to just pick up the pieces and move on. But more ofter the basis of
the relationship was strong and it’s worth trying to salvage.
Most of the time, there’s no real reason why you cannot get an ex back after a break up, if you
want to and if you take the right approach.
I’m going to give some suggestions about how to get an ex back. I believe that people
should make more of an effort to work things out then most people do when their relationship hits a rough
patch. Most people give up too soon.
Sometimes You Shouldn't Get An Ex Back
But there are some times when leaving is absolutely the right thing and you need to be sure that
you’re not in that situation before you try to get your ex back.
The main example of this is a physically abusive relationship. It’s surprising how often
the physically abused person returns to such a relationship, but unless the abuser has gone through extensive
counseling, it almost always is a mistake to get back together.
How To Get An Ex Back
So assuming that your relationship is one of the majority worth saving, a
good place to start learning how to get an ex back is to figure out what caused the break up in the first
place. Obviously you can’t change the past but you can learn from it. Look at the situation
clearly and see if you made any mistakes.
If so, learn and grow from them.
Sometimes a break up occurs because of a single event.
At other times it may happen after a long running accumulation of frustrations that you or your
ex couldn’t deal with anymore. Whatever your situation, try to get clear on what happened and imagine
how you and your significant other could handle it differently if something similar came up in the
Most of the time you can get an ex back with the right moves, but if you don’t get clear on the
underlying issues you may find yourself going through another break up in a few months.
The overall strategy on how to get an ex back is to be someone they would want to be with.
They fell in love with you in the first place, so this usually just means being you when you’re at your
Also, you want to look like you’re doing fine without them. You don’t want to be needy,
desperate, at loose ends or falling apart without them.
Think about it. Would you be more attracted to a needy, whiny clinging person who can’t
seem to get their act together or someone who’s upbeat, positive and seems to be fully engaged in life? The
answer is clear.
You want to walk a fine line here, staying at a distance and minimizing communication
while not seeming so distant that your ex will assume that there’s no chance of winning you back.
You want to be friendly but somewhat aloof. You may also want to create something of an
air of mystery about yourself.
For example, if you happen to be having a conversation with your ex and they ask you what you’re
doing this weekend, let them know that you “have plans” or that you’re “getting together with some friends”.
Don’t be any more specific than that even if they ask. Let them wonder what fun things you’re doing without
them and feel that maybe they’re missing out.
These strategies are very useful to help you go about getting your ex back. They’re a darn good
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