How to Keep a Woman Happy – Advice On Relationships For Men

If you want to have any chance of enjoying a long-term relationship, it’s important that you know how to keep a woman happy.  I’m going to offer some advice on relationships for men that I think you’ll find helpful.

Be Yourself

Some of the best advice on relationships I can give you is to always be yourself. Some men seem to think they need to put on a show to attract a beautiful, sexy woman. It almost always backfires.

Women can spot insincerity a mile away and they don’t like it. On the ohter hand, they’re extremely attracted to a man who is confident and comfortable with himself.

The next time you’re out, notice how many homely guys are with extremely attractive woman. Confidence and genuineness mean more to women than looks.

The other important point is that if you do manage to attract a woman by putting on a show, you’re stuck with that show long-term. That’s not basis for a relationship.

Little Things Are Important

The next bit of advice on how to keep a woman happy is to regularly find little things to do to show you care. They don’t have to be expensive or extravagant – just thoughtful. For example leave a little note for her somewhere where she’ll come across it unexpectedly. Take care of a little chore for her without being asked.

Small gestures like these mean a lot to a woman. They let her know that she is important to you and that she is valued. It goes a long way toward keeping her happy.

 Laughter Helps

The next tip will come more naturally for some guys than others, but it’s important for everyone. Try to make her laugh.

That doesn’t mean you need to be a stand up comedian or memorize a book of jokes. It does mean making an effort to look at the brighter side of life and trying to find ways to make her laugh.

You know it feels good to laugh, and laughing together builds positive associations with the relationship – when she thinks of you she’ll think of feeling good.

I won’t bother you with the details of the health benefits of laughter, but you should know that in almost every survey asking woman what they look for in a man, a good sense of humor is at or near the top.

Clean Up Your Act

Please don’t take this next bit of advice the wrong way – it may not apply to you at all. But if you think it might, take it to heart. It has to do with looking your best.

Most guys know enough to clean up and dress to look good when they first start dating a woman. However, that attention to detail slacks off for a lot of men once they’ve been in a relationship for a while. That’s not a good idea.

Unless you’re an extreme case, poor grooming alone isn’t going to ruin your relationship, but it certainly isn’t going to help it.

Women spend a lot more attention to clothes and hair and stuff like that than men do – it’s important to them. I’m certainly not suggesting that you start acting like a woman about fashion, just pay some attention to how you look when she’s around. It will pay dividends.

There are a lot of other things that go into keeping a woman happy, but you’ll be way ahead of most men if you follow the advice you just read. Unfortunately, it’s all too easy for things to go wrong in a relationship. A lot of the stuff it takes to make a relationship better, or even fix one that’s started to go bad is common sense once you hear it, but it’s so important to hear it.

I think that’s why I like T Dub Jackson’s book The Magic of Making Up so much. Great advice you can use right away. Definitely check it out. You’ll learn a lot more about how to keep a woman happy.

The Magic of Making Up